just some advises

Life is like a storybook, eveRyday, something new happened:

sometimes we have to understand y some people react or acted in such a way..
if you never take your time to understand it, or if you never take the initiative to do so,
most likely you'll understand the story one-sided.
so that is y there's such thing called human sociology or psychology...
where understanding human behaviour and actions, are essential...
it teaches us not to stigmatized, stereotype or label an individual.
in short, selfish.